In regards to consciousness, I’ve seen and realize that it takes time to develop the awareness or integrated thinking. And when trying to share or set an example of integrated honesty, it will also take time for the observer to catch on or realize the essence of the connection. My main point is honest reality must first be defined within (yourself), then displayed as well as spoken outwardly. When dealing with family and loved ones, it is a process for them to grow just as you are. So, you can look at it as a fight OR as an evolving process that starts with basic integrations that expands to broader integrations.